Tuesday, March 21, 2023

As a 12yo student, Sam was told to ‘stop’ relationship with sexually abusive teacher

Some 36 years after he was sexually abused by one of his high school teachers, Sam Leishman stood up in a courtroom and read a statement, detailing the impact it had had on him.

CONTENT WARNING: This story contains details that may cause distress.

It was a turning point for him. No longer was he a terrified young boy who did not understand what was happening.

“I was nervous about it. I was told to bring some support along and I didn’t because I thought, ‘Oh, I’ll just throw up or start crying or wet myself or something. I’ll just make a fool of myself’, so I just went along on my own with my statement,” Mr Leishman told the Tasmanian child sexual abuse commission of inquiry on Friday.

“I remember standing up before the judge and the court… [and] I suddenly felt like the biggest person in the room.

Mr Leishman was a 12-year-old student at New Town High when he was repeatedly sexually abused by a teacher he admired, Darrel George Harington, in the late 1970s.

When other boys at the school found out he was spending time with Harington, one said to him: “How did it feel to suck Harington’s cock last night?”

That was the start of bullying that left him isolated and made his high school years a misery.

“A few days later, one of the other teachers in my school took me aside, and the words effectively were, ‘I don’t know what’s going on between you and Mr Harington, but obviously something is and you need to make it stop ‘,” Mr Leishman told the commission.

“You were given the responsibility of stopping it?” Commission president Marcia Neave asked.

“Yes,” replied Mr Leishman.

‘Shit, that happened to me’

He told the commission about being terrified his parents would find out, and about how Harington had gained his parents’ trust.

It was not until much later in life, however, that Mr Leishman realized that what happened to him was child sexual abuse.

He was 48 years old, feeling down about things that had been happening in his life, and, as he said he always did when he was feeling down, he thought back to what happened to him when he was 12.

,[I] blamed everything that was happening in my life now to events going all the way back to when I was 12,” he said.

On the news that night, Mr Leishman saw then-prime minister Julia Gillard give an update on the work of the national child sexual abuse royal commission.

It was a “light bulb moment” for him, Mr Leishman said, and, out of curiosity, he started reading statements on the royal commission’s website.

Mr Leishman engaged with the royal commission and, during that process, he was contacted by police and he discovered that other children had also been abused by Harington.

In 2015, Harington pleaded guilty to — and was jailed for — the sexual abuse of several boys in the 1970s, ’80s and ’90s.

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Sam Leishman was unable to access information about himself and his time at school.,Nation World News: Luke Bowden ,

‘Completely stymied’ in trying to get information

However, Mr Leishman’s story did not end there. He thought the state’s Education Department would want to talk to him, to understand how Harington’s abuse was able to happen. He also had questions of his own.

He wrote to then-education minister Jeremy Rockliff in 2015, asking for a meeting, but it took two years before a meeting was arranged with the department’s deputy secretary for learning.

Mr Leishman said that, during that meeting, he felt he was “to some degree being listened to”.

As for his own questions, Mr Leishman said he felt “completely stymied” by the process for getting information.

Right to Information became impossible for him because he needed Harington’s permission to release some of the information.

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