Monday, January 30, 2023

Strategic invulnerability: psychological techniques for neutralizing a jealous person

Today I invite you to consider together Envy, a sentiment that can be present in all walks of life, regardless of age or social class. You can be jealous of almost everything. this feeling wants to destroy He or she who is the object of envy. it manifests itself in a way Unconscioushidden, and always hurtsTo both the one who experiences it and the one who is jealous.

In general, we can feel what the jealous person feels from these three signs,

in the background, does not feel worthy or capable of receiving what others enjoy, That’s why I envy him. One tool to neutralize or destroy jealousy, which works most of the time, is “strategic disqualification”,

What does it consist of?

For example, if the person you’re jealous of tells us: “That car you bought is amazing!”, we might respond: “Yeah, but sometimes it works well and sometimes it doesn’t.” Never that much.” Or, if he tells us: “It’s great that you got a promotion at work!”, we can answer: “Yes, but we’ll have to see how long it lasts.”

Jealousy wants to destroy him or whatever triggers this feeling.Pexels

this technology Makes jealous people stop competing and comparing themselves with the rest. And, above all, that they are no longer the ideal they envy and want to destroy because they feel inside that they cannot reach it.

And, if at any time we become aware that we are experiencing this destructive emotion, it usually stems from a inferiority complexone of low self-esteem unfamiliar, we need replace envy with admiration,

To admire something or someone is to “see it well”, which enables and drives us. rejoice in the achievements of others, to persuade them. Above all, because we are convinced that if that good thing happens to someone else, sooner or later it will happen to me. When we spend our energy growing (rather than jealous), we are free to soar. Let nothing stop us from starting this new year!

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