Educating is a task that involves a lot of responsibility. It is not easy for a mother or a father, but it must always be taken into account that education affects the child, the family and the whole society violently.
Yakelin Caycho, a Sos expert from the Children’s Village of Peru, tells us three basic reasons for not using violence to prepare a party;
1. Because love belongs to violence
If you use force to educate children, you will unconsciously teach them that loving people have the right to hurt them.
Girls and boys are in the process of development and can internalize that “my father or mother, who is the person who loves me the most in the world, hit me, it is normal for anyone else who loves me to hit me”. In this way, when they are adults and begin interpersonal relationships, they probably begin to either justify or normalize violent situations with their partner and/or friends.
2. Because authority refers to violence
Parents attack their children because it is a power relationship. And in this way we instruct them, so that whoever has greater power than them can attack them. In the future, this not only affects their relationships, but also in the workplace.
In addition to violence as a form of discipline, minors learn to obey with fear and obedience.
3. Because it teaches that force is suitable for settling conflicts
If a girl or boy sees their parents fighting, or if they see them fighting with other people when they go to school, they do the same thing, because they do it internally because this is the right way to solve it.
This dynamism also helps to understand the behavior of society in general. When someone attacks a minor, it does not only cause physical damage, since the violence also generates other behaviors that will mark the future way of life.
Commitment to emotional education
In order that there may be spaces of discipline, precepts have been established. There are rules set by adults to create a safe space of coexistence that protects not only girls, boys or young people, but all household members.
Norms in families create a free and safe space so that everyone who lives in them can develop fully. But to ensure the protection of these rules, not only daughters and sons, but also adults to follow: it is the best example of teaching.
He also collaborates with children by sharing the “I tell you” collection, which runs from March 6th to April 9th.
“I imputo Te” is the name of the collection of SOS Children’s Villages of Peru; who inquires that food and care should be included for children and young people in case of rains and floods, which have greatly affected the country. Please give through Yape or Plin, to the number 943 195 645. You can give them the best help today.
