Wednesday, March 29, 2023

Wow! It’s not even more dear, it turns out

The term “sleepover date” has gone viral for some time. It turns out that there are several terms with the same meaning that have been circulating before. Such as “staycation” or “Friend With Benefits (FWB).” All of these terms lead to a casual style of dating by “sleeping” with a partner who is not yet married.

All these terms are now starting to raise controversy among netizens. Many think that all these terms seem to open up opportunities to normalize free sex among young people.

Sleepover Date

Not only that, experts also argue that “sleepover dates,” “staycation,” or “FWB” can trigger psychiatric problems in someone. Quoted from Healthline, Sunday (18/9/2022), there is a depression that appears after having sex. This is known as postcoital dysphoria (PCD). Depression can range from feelings of sadness to anxiety, agitation, anger. “Basically any bad feeling after sex that you wouldn’t normally expect,” explains Gail Saltz, MD, professor of psychiatry at NY Presbyterian Hospital Weill.

This feeling even makes a person cry loudly for 5 minutes to 2 hours. There are several causes of PCS or depression after sex.

One is because of feelings about the relationship being lived. If it’s a one-night stand or a casual relationship, someone may feel sad not really getting to know your partner. Maybe you feel lonely or regret the encounter and the deed.

Just like “sleepover,” is done to people with no clear official ties. It could be that the person left because he had taken advantage of the partner. The most disadvantaged parties are usually women.

In addition, depression will also appear when a person is not ready to have sex, but because he is carried away by the atmosphere and emotions for a moment, makes him do it.

“Feeling depressed after sex could be due to the fact that you are not physically or emotionally ready to have sex,” says sex therapist Robert Thomas, quoted from the same source.

This will lead to a lingering guilt. In addition, it will make someone traumatized to have sex. Even worse, he will hate himself for being considered bad and dirty.

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